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This is a very common technique in that you simply wrap your fingers around the shaft of your penis like a baseball bat and rub it up and down. It provides lots of contact between your hand and penis – and more contact means more pleasure. You can reverse grip it from this technique as well for a different sensation.
By Lisa S. Lawless, Ph.D.
Psychotherapist & Sexuality Expert
CEO & Founder of
Holistic Wisdom, Inc. & NAASAS
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You can use all of your fingers to only two for this technique. With fingers on top of the shaft at a diagonal and your thumb below. Simply running your fingers along the shaft like this can provide a soft and mesmerizing effect.
The Blow Job
In order to simulate the feeling of lips sliding over your penis, lube up your erection and hold the shaft in one hand while you put your dominant hand’s index and middle fingers together horizontally, palm toward your face, in front of the penis head. Push the head into the gap between the fingers. The fingers should be relaxed, not tense. Now pull back and do this over and over the top third of your penis. Feel how the fingers conform to the penis’s contour as they slide over the head and back. As you do this, position your other hand behind the “lips” your fingers are making and grip and squeeze the head as you push the penis in.
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