1. Set a goal. Not to go all coach on you, but if you’re looking to get something tangible from your masturbation time, figure out what that is, and commit yourself to getting it. An example: Maybe you’re having a hard time reaching orgasm with your new partner and don’t have an answer when they ask, “what do you like?” In your solo sessions, find out what that is by trying new things. Then, next time they ask, you might have a confident answer (and a more satisfying partnered session).
2. Bring in some props. Yes, like sex toys and vibes, but also things you already have around your house. Lucky enough to have a shower with a removable head? Use the water pressure to stimulate your clit (or just slide down in your tub and let the spray from overhead do the same thing).
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