Blogger positivity: my Friday night wank

It’s Saturday, and – drum roll please – I’m at Eroticon! It’s still Share Our Shit Saturday though, and so tonight I’ve assembled a collection of a few posts that might feature in my typical Friday night. When I’m not on a weekend adventure, I’ll come home in the evening after my volunteer work, eat dinner, and then collapse into bed to wank. I’ll grab a vibrator, some lube, and open up my laptop to find some sexy writing: because for me words are the hottest thing ever.

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Edging and SSRIs

When the first March Kink of the Week prompt was revealed, I was excited. Edging is something that has definitely featured in my fantasies, and I anticipated being able to weave some of those thoughts into a piece of erotica. What I hadn’t anticipated was how fast the first weeks of March rushed by – so quickly, in fact, that I’m writing this on the last day of the prompt, on the way to Eroticon!

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My post for Masturbation Monday today is inspired by the knicker-soaking hotness of this post by the wonderful Cara Thereon – who I am also super excited to meet at Eroticon in just four days! I also seem to be discovering new backdrops for my fantasies, and while it isn’t significant here, I have already started writing a longer piece of erotica that delves deeper into this setting.

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Bunny tail butt plug

Guess who bought a new butt plug? Guess whose new butt plug is a bunny tail? Guess whose new bunny tail butt plug is super cute? Guess whose super cute new bunny tail butt plug led to happy dancing around their bedroom because they felt utterly adorable and very subby? Yes, it’s ME!

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Blogger positivity: talking about vaginismus

For this week’s Share Our Shit Saturday, I’ve collected three posts that all discuss a particular topic. Until recently I hadn’t heard of vaginismus (and please don’t ask me to say the word aloud!) but as I write this I’m almost completely sure that it is something I suffer from. Discovering that finding penetration painful is A Genuine Thing was so reassuring, and so I’m sharing the posts that helped me understand my body.

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Happy International Woman’s Day…

… now bend me over the kitchen table and beat me with your belt.

Don’t, obviously. Not without my consent. However, if we’ve discussed and negotiated you strapping me, then please – I would love some impact play today. There’s one other thing though, that if you’re going to do any sort of kink or sex with me you need to understand, is that because I’m a submissive woman doesn’t mean I’m not a feminist.

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